Now maybe serial rapists/child molestors might need to be lock up for life or maybe consider capital punishment. A lot of them serve their time then become repeat offenders. Some don’t even register as sex offenders.

But the awareness and bans from certain places-where young people actively go is very helpful. And again some even find their way around it. Still, it is not enough to protect children from sexual predators. But then again it’s hard to decide.

Because not all pedophiles are adults. Some are even teenagers/adolescents that prey on younger children and/or women.

Anyway, it’s hard to decide what the best punishment should be for repeat sex offenders. What do you think?

Dear Brothas,

I’m not talking about all black men but lately there is a bigger percentage of brothas that is showing this “bias” attitude about certain type of westernize women. Some of you say you prefer the socalled light skin, long hair, pretty girl. You say that’s what every man wants. It’s what every man always wanted. Really? I know this type of attitude can exist in anyone. And it has for many years.

Racism has been going on for thousands of years. It existed with the Jews and Samaritans, even when Jesus Christ walk the earth. The Jews and Samaritans didn’t even talk to each other because of that hatred. It became a tradition with them which spread like a poisonous wildfire. More than likely, it existed before then. It was going about in the era of Hitler. Pitting Germans against Jews and finally regarding in the horrible Holocaust that we know of today.

This ignorant attitude, racism brought about slavery and later Jim Crow in North America. Then the socalled superiority attitude brought about Apartheid in South Africa. I written a lot about racism. It is a self-inflicted slave mentality that falsely suggest that superiority is only with certain types of races. When you decide that you prefer to relate better to other races than your own, honey that’s racism/prejudice.

It is self-hatred, brothas and everyone else that feels this way. It consists of a bunch of stereotypes that someone else made up, while you believe it like 3×3 is 9! Don’t hate yourself and/or anyone else. Love yourself. Respect yourself. Be proud of yourself. Because if you don’t take care of the only  life that you have, no one else will! I do believe that dating with your socalled bias in mind is not what you need at all. First, you need to take care of your issues before you date anybody. Of course, anybody can date whoever they want. It’s your life. Your choices. Your consequences.

Whenever I hear about people talking about their  narrowminded preferences, about how they prefer these kind of looks compared to those-then it becomes their preference to be prejudiced.  We understand everyone have their preferences, but it will make better sense if you examine everyone with it. Right? When you show bias against some and not others, that isn’t a preference. Instead it is prejudice.

I bet you probably wonder why I wrote this letter for black men and others that choose to believe these stereotypes. I did it because over the years I’ve gotten so many questions regarding this topic. I use to be a racist. I’ve stated this plainly in my previous posts on this site and my own. I’ve change for the best! So I’m not one anymore! And those people whom I’m talking about can do the same, if they want to. You are not going to be happy unless you live in the reality and began to make common sense. When you hate on your own race, not only are you selling out cheaply, you have become worser than the bigots that hate on other races.

I remembered a few years ago, when I was at a restaurant when I heard a black man make a very ignorant statement about black women. I overheard the man and his friends talking about dating outside of their race. I walk right by them just before I heard this brotha say, “If all black women look like her, then I’ll definitely date one of ‘em!” I almost laughed at his outrageous remark! But instead I kept on walking and thought to myself, “Let him continue to be ignorant because in the end, his ignorance will not hurt black women but only will hurt himself.” Truefully speaking, good and bad deeds exist in everyone.

God held back nothing when he created everyone. And if he had held back something, then most likely you wouldn’t have been created. Maybe when you meet the type of person that you are, when you become that type of person that you talk about, you will see how it is to be judge without proving yourself first. So it’s no use for being bias. In the end, your lopsided prejudice will keep you from all the happiness in the world. So be true to yourself if you allow yourself to be swallowed in somebody else’s misery, you will always be disappointed with your life. And I know you love yourself way too much for that to happen!

Love,

Denise

(If you haven’t already, be sure to check out the introduction blog to this blog, go here to read it first before you continue to read this one.)

Hey, I’m Denise Wilson. “Life’s Expectations”  is my site.

Ya know, very rarely, do writers offer insight into their lives.

Letting their readers ask them questions, provide feedback, etc. to them.

Below, is a conversation between myself and curious readers.

Unlike those email related questions on our gossip blog, Red Hot Juicy Sizzling Gossip, this is an open discussion, question/answer format directly from readers to myself.

Readers are encourage to ask me different questions (must be appropriate) on any topic.

I will try my best to provide interesting insight about my life, goals, plans, and opinions on a variety of subjects.

Hope you enjoy our conversation! If you have further questions or comments, I encourage you to submit them to me. Either on this blog or you can contact me by my email RedHotJuicySizzlingGossip@gmail.com. You can also submit your feedback to my advice column here. Plus, be sure to suscribe to my site here and RHJSG!

(This is a lively conversation between myself and various readers.)

Mary:   Denise, I read your brief biography on your sites but  can you tell me more about yourself?

DW:   Sure. Well, as you know already, My name is Denise Wilson and I’m 21 years old. I live in Arkansas. I am a writer and blogger. I love to read and write all kinds of things. I’m a Christian. My political stance is being an Independent. I love to watch tv, sight see, have fun, and so much more. As you know I love to gossip with friends about everything, but I tend to stick to interesting and relevant topics. I’ve been blogging for a few years. But I’ve been writing since I was a child. I’m an inspiring  entertainer/author. Also I like providing gossip/advice to readers like you, Mary.

Jack:   What inspired you to write?

DW:   A lot of different things. I noticed that many voices were left out of the traditional media. They seem to only focus on irrelevant stories and higher ratings. I wanted to talk about all kinds of subjects that rarely gets talk about in the press, but in everyday conversations. My love for words inspired me to share my perspective with others. Hopefully, with the world.

Shanice:   Why did you really leave twitter? Another reader ask you in a recent blog you posted. And you said something like you got bored. Is that all?

DW:   Yes, indeed! I did get bored with it. It was fun at first. But I lost interest soon after. I promise I will be back soon. I know many of my readers are missing my tweets! Probably, inlcuding you!

Anonymous:   You seem like an interesting person to know? Are you single? lol Also do you have any pictures of yourself that your fans can see. I feel like I know you from your posts. I share mostly the same viewpoint that you do. I love your posts very much. Thanks.

DW:   LOL, I assume that you are a curious guy! Yes, I’m single. And I do have pictures but I will not post any of them right now. Soon, people will see me when I come out as an artist very soon. So until then, you and many others will have to wait. lol

Ryan:   Denise, you said in a previous post about racism, that you use to be a racist. Wow, now that is very hard to believe! As a white guy, and a good looking one at that! Would you have dated me!? lol Also what made you change? I’m very glad you did.

DW:   Well Ryan, I went through many different stages in my life. Yes, racism was one of them. I am glad I change too.  Freedom from miserable feelings is a joy to me. And if I had met you then, the answer to dating would have been a firm no. But if I were to meet a great guy now, regardless of his race, then the answer would probably be yes!

Anonymous:   Who are the other gossip bloggers on y’all’s RHJSG website?

DW:   They are friends of mine. Their names are Christian Whitewater, Claire Nichols, Cheyenne Summerville, Mike Williams, and Jordan Parker. I’ve known these people for years. They are like family to me.

Jesse:   Are you on any dating sites? If so, what are they?

DW:   Yes, I am. I use different dating methods to find love. But sorry I can’t reveal any names to you. I am currently looking for love. Trying to take my time so I can get it right the first time! Hopefully, I’ll find the right guy someday. Also I’m color blind and I give people chances in life and in love.

Anonymous:   Who did you vote for in the ’08 election? If you voted for Obama, are you an Obama supporter?

DW:   I voted for President Obama. And yes, I am an Obama supporter! I like the guy. I think he is doing a good job. He’s just got started, just like I did for Bush, I’m going to give him time to accomplish his goals. I have been both supportive and critical of him. I’m not a Obama fan, I’m not going to any townhall events or rallies (I’ll watch it on tv instead) nor will I donate money to him or any other politician. Because I feel that I have better things to do with my time. And the money should go to better use than a campaign.

B. Gray:   Are you Independent or Conservative? I read one of your posts awhile back and you claim to be an Independent but mostly conservative. You said that you didn’t agree with gay marriage and you were pro life. Then you said you believe in global warming and Obama Care, oops, I mean universal health care. So what exactly is your political stance? You seem to go back in forth in your posts. I would like for you to clear that up, please.

DW:   I am an Independent, B. Gray! And no, I don’t go back and forth in my posts! lol. Different people post topics on our site. We already mention this in a previous post. Yes, I am very conservative on same sex marriage and abortion. And very liberal on global warming and health care. But I am also reasonable in my views, unlike some other people with extremist views. To me, you sound like you are ultra conservative. Also I believe that it is peoples business to do what they want to do. It’s their lives, ya know. Also I believe most people will prefer “Obama Care” over what they have now,  if they are accurately informed of the ongoing debate, which is outrageous that some folks are not. I hope that this has clear the confusion up. 

Andy:   You mention in your post today, that you are going on vacation next week. So where are you going to? Wherever you go, I hope you have a lot of fun! I’m definitely going to miss one of my favorite bloggers! Peace!

DW:   I am going somewhere fun! It’s a secret! I can’t reveal my location. But while I am gone, I will definitely miss my favorite readers like yourself, Andy. But remember, readers like you will have Cheyenne Summerville posting different blogs in my place. She is almost as interesting, fun, and controversial as I am! lol So don’t be sad. Be happy!

Tasha:   As a black woman, I deeply appreciate another black woman like yourself, putting out topics that are long overdue. Somebody need to talk about what is going on out there in this world these days. I just love yo racism and sexism blogs. They are the main ones I check out. I read your stuff all the time. You keep it real and simple. And I respect that. I already told my girls to check out your stuff. We admire that you tell it like it is to people. You are not afraid of controversy. You will tell them off, if you have to. Y’all stuff is deep. You and yo crew make a person think. So congrats to all of y’all with the blog. Over 12,000 hits in a few months, you go girl! I like your new blog too. It got a few hits, but you just started it this month. I bet before a year’s time, you will be getting thousands of hits a day, instead of hundreds. That’s just cause a lot of people don’t know about your blogs yet, cuz if they did you will be getting a whole lot more traffic than what you getting now! I be noticing everybody’s traffic! You and your friends are doing a good job! The blogs keep getting better and better. Wish you all the luck in the world, Denise!

DW:   Thank you very much! I definitely needed that! I appreciate your support and your friends support too, Tasha. I agree with you that topics like the ones we post are long overdue. As you know, we try to post topics that are interesting and controversial for our readers. I hope that we continue to receive readers support and we can expand our sites to an even bigger audience. Again I thank you for your comments. We will continue to post better topics that will interest more readers like you and your friends.

Diamond:   I was wondering can you put a voice to a lot of your posts on RHJSG. I like your posts a lot. But most of them feel too neutral to me. Too insensitive and voiceless. I rather y’all be more sensitive and give your opinions on the sensitive topics. You all seem like robots or computers to me. Like you guys don’t have any feelings. So my advice will be if you can put a voice to your posts that would require it.

DW:   Wow, that’s a first to me! Diamond, we do have voices to our posts! I know exactly what you mean. Some of our posts don’t have sensitive enough voices to our readers. While others do. Have you ever read a newspaper that had a voice? If you did that would be a rare. Though our posts aren’t newspapers but you see what I mean there. My personal blog “Life’s Expectations” have a voice to most of the posts on it. You should check that site out too, if you haven’t already-if you want a more sensitive voice to what you are reading. But thanks for the advice still, we will take that in consideration, Diamond.

Anonymous:   I don’t mean to sound critical of you or your blogs. I read several of them and I like the ones I read. I’m currently on your post titled “the N word: Should this word be Ban?” Do y’all got to be so controversial and insensitive on the slurs? I wish that you all will tone it down some. Bring the controversy down a few notches. As a white lesbian, I was deeply hurt and offended by the constant slurs in this post. Though you posted a warning sign on it but keep it real, who in the world will not read something like this when they are interested in it! Don’t get me wrong, I love your sites. I know it’s a controversial gossip site. I can see you guys are trying to attract attention and bring in more viewers, but if you all continue to offend the fans that you already have, and you start losing them, then why is it worth it? You can still be controversial and interesting without all the slurs! P.S. Still love you and your site, hoping you will tone it down some with the slurs!

DW:   I understand what you’re saying. I’m sory that you were offended by these slurs. But ya know we all get offended by different things. That’s life. You have to take it in stride. I’m glad that you are a fan. And that you like our blogs. Just like I told another reader, we will take it in consideration. You should be aware that since it’s a controversial gossip site, people will expect just that. No matter where you go, you will always find something controversial or offending. We don’t mean to offend you with the slurs, but we are actually criticizing the general use of them from ignorant and prejudiced people.

Emily & Tray:   Man, we love your posts!!! Denise you are awesome. Your friends too! Can you post more blogs about sex! Lol!!!

DW:   Why not! lol Though we rarely post about it but we talk about it from time to time. I’ll see what we can do! Lol! In the meanwhile, just expect the unexpected!

Anonymous:   You seem to defend Obama way too much for me. That’s the only negative with your sites that I have. If you are a true conservative, you would not be trying to defend a bleeding heart liberal all the time. Btw, the blogs are fine-just stop excusing Obama & bringing him in every blog you post! The world already know that he apologizes for America too much, so they know how weak we became since he became president of the great U S of A! So you should take your OWN advice and LISTEN to it!

DW:   Excuse me, I’m not defending Obama all of the time. And I definitely don’t talk about Obama in every post, that is definitely a 100% lie. I give both praise and constructive criticism whatever the situation is. Whether the president is liberal or conservative, democrat or republican. Also who are you to question my political stance and tell me I might not be a true conservative. I never said I was a true or ultra conservative. I said I was an independent with both liberal and conservative views on certain topics. Anyway, thanks for thinking the blogs are fine. Also America did not become weak since Obama became president. America have always been strong at heart but sometimes falter during difficult challenges. This country went through all kinds of trials. Were you complaining about America being weak when Bush was president? It became weak at times during his term too. Finally, I always take my advice and listen to it. Maybe if you do the same thing, with my advice, then you wouldn’t be so bitter! I would say your advice but it may be wrong.

Trish:   I enjoy all of your websites and blogs. All I have to say to you is keep doing a great job. I wish you the best!

DW:   Thank you very much Trish! I appreciate your comments. Thanks for your support too!

Anonymous:   Can you give me any clues what the next blogs will be about next week?

DW:   I never like spoiling a surprise! But keep tuning in to our blog. Cheyenne will begin to post her blogs starting on Monday. I don’t have any idea what she plan to post about! But what I do know is that it will definitely be exciting and sensational!

Brent:   What do you see yourself doing five years from now?

DW:   I see myself doing a lot of things by then. Even though no one knows exactly what they will be doing five years from now. We can only assume that we will be doing those things. I will love to achieve all of my goals! I hope by then that I will be acting and singing. Making more money than I am now! Everyone wants that! Overall, I just hope I can be successful in life! Along with everyone else.

Anonymous:   Have you ever copy another blog?

DW:    No, of course not! I don’t copy anything from anyone! I only use my blogs. They are all original. The same with my friends.

Susie White:   What are your favorite foods and movies? Do you like your hometown? Do you travel often? If so where? Can you give me tips on how to write cool blogs?

DW:   Wow, so many questions! Five questions in one! LOL I love pizza and spaghetti! Crazy about salads and ice cream. I’ll eat anything that’s good! Sweet water and mountain dew. I enjoyed movies like Life, The Outsiders, Dream Girls, Titantic, Romeo must Die, War of the Worlds, Final Destinations movies, anything by Tyler Perry and Stephen King. There are so much more, but I can’t think of any more at this point! lol I don’t really like my hometown. Arkansas is too small but I’ve been here my whole life. I’ve gotten use to it over the years. Later, I will move somewhere nice, where the weather is just right. I don’t travel much. I go to places every now and then. If you want to learn how to write cool blogs, just be original and interesting. Talk about controversial topics. Reach out to your audience. Express your opinions and ask for your audience opinions. Be yourself. Don’t be afraid to write about certain forbidden topics. Don’t copy someone else’s work. Take your time and think deeply about something that you like or take interest in. Continue to check out our blogs to get great insight and other people works too.

Anonymous:   I read in one of your blogs that you are in the process of publishing your works. Can you let me know when you’re finish with it? Also will you be able to provide updates?

DW:   Sure. I’m in the beginning stages right now. I will provide updates later on. But it would be awhile before I’m finish. I will definitely let you and many others know.

Anonymous:   Do you have any advice for someone that’s going through a tough time in their life now, Denise?

DW:   Yes, of course. Just continue to pray, no matter the circumstance. Try to be positive. Stay around positive people, and stay away from negative people. Go out and have fun. Spend time with family, friends, insignificant others. Relax. Watch good tv. Play sports you love. Do the things you admire. Work at your hobbies. In time, you will feel better and hopefully life will become easier. And don’t forget to follow your dreams!

Carol:   Denise, you seem very wise among your years. Very mature for your age. Are you sure you are only twenty one!? I got to hand it to you, you give magnificent advice! I enjoy reading your blogs. Good Work!

DW:   Thanks! I try to give the best advice that I can to people. Because I will want someone to do the same for me. I appreciate your feedback and I’m happy that you enjoy my blogs!

Anonymous:   How do I contact you if I want to ask you a question or ask you for advice?

DW:   You can email me here RedHotJuicySizzlingGossip@gmail.com. Also you can submit your question, comment, or advice to my advice gossip column here and don’t forget you can always leave your feedback on my sites. I check out all feedback.

Anonymous:   You and your friends have been inspiring and good over the months with your blogs. Tell me, do you ever get uneasy what other folks may think of your blogs?

DW:   Thanks for the compliments. Yes, sometimes. See that’s the thing about being a good writer or blogger, you can’t worry about what everybody would think of you. If you do, you would never get anything done. It’s good to be cautious but it’s best to not over do it.

Anonymous:   I’m from Europe. I know America acts like we are from  two different worlds. It’ s been quite a pleasure checking out your blogs. I want to know, What’s the best advice anyone ever gave you in life?

DW:   I have to think long and hard on that one! I’m going to tell you this, We are all people living in one world. Not all people are like that, you know. The best advice probably will be these couple of sayings: “Face your fears” and “Live every day of your life like it’s your last.”

DW

-Anonymous

So far, I check out both. I’m use to posting mainly in the forums.

Briefly toured some chat roooms. I haven’t check it out in awhile though.

Which is better or more interesting? The Forums or the chat room?

As I’ve gotten older, I rarely think about it.

I live my life not expecting to meet anyone.

I just stop looking. I guess I suppose that if he do come along, then it will be a surprise.

He will catch me off guard.

Don’t never ever stop looking when the time is right.

You look some. Don’t look. Then you will be surprised.

That’s my motto. Oh yeah, and I was half joking about the being single with a house full of cats for the rest of my life! Lol